From the ultimate high to the ultimate low
Friday morning my hubby and I got the best news, we were pregnant! Although we weren’t planning on it, we were excited and ready to take our relationship to the next level.
We told my parents friday night and they were so happy (to be their first grandchild). We told his family saturday when his whole family was together and they were all excited too…
Saturday afternoon I started having some spotting which I read could be quite normal during early pregnancy, and me, not being an alarmist just thought everything would be ok…
Sunday morning, things weren’t right…I started bleeding, heavily. The advice nurses on the phone recommended I go down to the ER. Between a blood test, an IV, a pelvic exam, a vaginal sonogram and everything I was poked and prodded more times than I cared for.
After a few hours of testing everything the Dr. came and told us I had had a miscarriage. I also found out that my blood is RH negative and since my hubby is RH positive the baby was also RH positive and basically my blood being neative treated the baby as an invader and attacked it (like a virus). They gave me a shot of RhoGAM and apparently this is supposed to make it so the blood does not go on this attacking spree in future pregnancies…
It’s a been a whirlwind of a weekend…My hubby and I went from the ultimate high to the ultimate low in the matter of about 48 hours. We are using this time to lean on eachother for support. I’m a very lucky to have my hubby, he is my rock and I know I couldn’t make it through this without him by my side and to hold my hand and hold me at all the right moments.
I’ve not been exercising lately but I have been eating healthy when I do feel like eating, which is few and far between.
If anyone has been through this before, please feel free to send me a message or e-mail me at jes6b@yahoo.com
The good news is my hubby and I found out we can conceive a child, and hopefully this whole RhoGAM thing will make it so the next pregnancy turns out just perfect. This whole experience has led Kenney (my hubby) and I to realize that we are ready for kids and as soon as my body is done going through this miscarriage (which sucks like holy hell) and we have all our questions answered we are going to start trying for a family.
Please keep Kenney and I in your good thoughts and prayers and hopefully our next pregnancy will be healthy and happy and we will be able to have a happy healthy baby as well.

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